Bring a Smile to My Face


How lovely of you to inquire, thank you! I love receiving thoughtful gifts. Here are some things I especially enjoy. Please send gifts to training (at)

My Favorite To Receive: these monetary e-gifts (click here) are my favorite, as they’ll help me build my recording studio, travel for personal growth and undertake more continuing education. Please include your name so I can thank you.

Retail Therapy: I’d also love e-gift cards from Sephora (makeup), Amazon (a bit of everything), Dark Garden in San Francisco (corset maker), Atsuko Kudo (latex fashions) and What Katie Did (retro lingerie).

Experiences: Gift certificates for spas and fine dining are divine, especially for locations in San Francisco, Chicago and NYC.

Flowers: pretty floral bouquets are lovely, especially in pink, red, purple, magenta and peach colors. My favorites are peonies, orchids, dahlias, roses and lavender (no lilies or other strongly fragranced flowers please, as I’m allergic to them).

Stock: contributing to my investment portfolio is a sexy way to show your support. This must be coordinated through a one-on-one conversation.

Charitable Donations: making a donation to a non-profit organization is also a generous way to show your appreciation (as well as receive a tax deduction). These organizations are very worthy of your donation:

  • San Francisco Sex Information
  • Transgender Law Center
  • The Trevor Project
  • National Coalition for Sexual Freedom