How to be an Excellent Submissive

Would you like to become a better submissive? In this episode I talk about four foundational ways you can improve in your submission, including: respect, acts of true service, obedience and gifts. I’ll also talk about a few things to avoid. Help yourself stand out from the crowd and really please your Dominant.

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Kinky Q&A

In this episode I answer some audience questions about: what is my perspective on gender play, how can someone get involved in their local BDSM scene, how to introduce D/s (Dominance/submission) dynamics into a long-term relationship and a brief intro on how to be an excellent submissive (which will be thoroughly covered in my next episode).

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Noted websites in this episode (I am not affiliated with either site):
**IMPORTANT: make sure you do your own research to find the best fit for you, whether you’re looking for a therapist, counselor, pro Domme or play partner! These sites are merely suggestions.**
1. Kink Aware Professionals Directory:
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Strap-On Play: Why I Love It

Strap-ons are a popular topic and activity, but some people may be unfamiliar with them (and unfortunately, some people have a stigma about using them). In this episode I introduce strap-on play – what is it, how do you do it, what do you need to do it – and tell you 10 reasons why I love wearing a strap-on.

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Why I Love Playing with Foot Fetishists

Zahvia - Kinky Foot Fetish TopThe topic of foot fetish is more popular than many people realize. I’m a foot fetish Top, which means I enjoy having my feet worshiped by my submissives and play partners. Why do I enjoy it? Here are my top 10 reasons for why I’m a foot fetish Top.

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Chastity Training: 10 Kinky Reasons for It

Chastity training is one of my favorite kinky topics. On today’s podcast episode, I talk about why I love putting my submissives into chastity. You might be surprised at some of my reasons!

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How to Explore Feminization

10 steps on how to explore feminization and discover what you truly enjoy. In this podcast episode I focus on genuine femme exploration (not fetish). I am welcoming and affirming of people who are crossdressers, LGBTQ+ and/or questioning their identity.

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Encouragement & Sensual Body Exercise

How do you manage stress when it seems that everything around you is falling apart? It can be easy to shut off all your feelings and stay in your head. This episode is a reminder that you have a beautiful resource within you: your unique sensuality. Let’s explore it.

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My BDSM Philosophy

Podcast episode: Many people have a misunderstanding about BDSM and assume it’s just whips, chains and heartlessness (or worse, get their information from mainstream media). They might also mistakenly assume all Dominants work the exactly same. Let me guide you through my philosophy and practice of BDSM as a Dominatrix – from the sexy and merciless aspects, to the nurturing and practical aspects.

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Podcast #4: Intro to Small Penis Humiliation

Not everyone with a penis wants to hear that it’s big. In fact, some people love hearing just the opposite.

In this episode the topic of “small penis humiliation,” otherwise known as SPH, is introduced. I discuss my insights into playing with this degradation fetish with cisgender men – whether they’re a submissive, sissy, cuckold or an adult little who enjoys age play.

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