New Podcast Series

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Hello my kinky lovelies! How are you? I hope this note finds you well and enjoying the new season upon us. Can you feel the first whispers of autumn in the air? I definitely can.

On a serious note, if you were anywhere near the recent hurricanes, I truly hope that you and your loved ones remained safe. <3

I want to thank those of you who sent such lovely feedback regarding my recent podcast episodes. It’s a beautiful thing to hear that my words have touched your lives. I am always happy to receive these notes, so please know that they are accepted with heartfelt gratitude.

So, now it’s time for my next podcast series…

PODCAST SERIES: 10 Things I Love About…
The next three episodes I have in store for you are about a few of my favorite topics: chastity, being a foot fetish Top and strap-ons. I’ll be telling you 10 things I love about each one. You’re in for some pretty sexy episodes!

Listen to my current episode on chastity via iTunes HERE

I’ll be posting my episodes on being a foot fetish Top and strap-ons this Friday night and Saturday night, respectively, so make sure to subscribe on iTunes!

ANNOUNCEMENT: I’ve Started a Patreon
I’d also like to formally announce my brand new Patreon!

What is Patreon, you may ask? It’s a platform I’m using to connect with my patrons; I offer you special rewards in turn for your patronage of my podcast and my upcoming kinky erotic audio stories. There is every level of patronage available, from very affordable to lavish. Sign up is easy and all of the rewards and practical details are explained upfront. I’ve been developing this project for some time, so I’m very excited to finally announce it!

My public podcast on iTunes will remain free, but if you decide to become my patron you’ll have access to things like my “too-hot-for-iTunes” erotic stories, phone and video chat sessions with me, custom kinky stories, access to my Snapchat, souvenirs of my fetish wear and more.

Patron rewards are granted on a monthly basis. You can sign up at any time, but if you’d like to get in on this first cycle, sign up before October 1st. To learn more, visit my Patreon page HERE

I’ll be spending the rest of this year primarily in Chicago. I may do brief trips out to San Francisco and New York City in October/November. Be in touch via my website if you’d like to book an appointment.

In the meantime my fellow kinkster, do take excellent care of yourself. I hope you savor all that this new season has to offer. Enjoy my new podcast episodes and if you join my Patreon, I’ll see you there very soon!

In Sweet Divine Kink,

Live Podcast Tonight & Tomorrow

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Hello my fellow kinkster,

Since this is my first newsletter, I should probably reintroduce myself to you. My name is Zahvia and I am a BDSM Dominant. If you subscribed a long time ago and wondered “why did I never receive a newsletter update?” – worry not, this is the first.

(Some of you may also remember me by my former name, Lexi Lipstick.)

If you’re anything like me, you’ve been feeling stressed about the ongoing horrific events in the U.S. Because of this, I’m feeling inspired to be vocal in the opposite direction and put out some positive, sexy energy into the world. I’ll be live broadcasting 3 new podcast episodes over tonight and tomorrow. Join me if you’d like to hear my thoughts on kink, encouragement, experience a sensual body exercise or listen to my guidance on feminization (see schedule below).

Admittedly, I also thought it’d be cool to do this around the eclipse because I’m woo like that.

Private Phone and Video Chat

I’m also offering private phone and video chat sessions this week. If you pre-book, you’ll receive a special rate. Reach out if you’d like to receive support, encouragement and/or enjoy some genuine kink play. Details can be found here.
Live Podcast Details

All you need to do to enjoy the podcast is visit the link below. This series is completely free. You don’t need to sign up. I know this is short notice, but I’ll be recording it, so it will stay available at the link below. This is a gift to you and anyone you’d like to share it with. If you’d like to offer something back in gratitude, I will happily receive it via my website, but there is no requirement. Please enjoy!
Click HERE to listen

**All times are Eastern Daylight Time**

Sunday, Aug. 20th  |  11:30p-12a
My BDSM Philosophy

Join me as talk about BDSM from my perspective – both the sexy aspects and the potential for deep life enhancement.

Monday, Aug. 21st  |  2:30p-3p
Eclipse Encouragement Talk and Sensual Body Exercise

Times have been difficult for many. Let me remind you how soothing it can feel to tap into your sensuality. I’ll be guiding you through a sensual exercise during the second half (not explicitly sexual, but probably NSFW).

Monday, Aug. 21st  |  9p-9:30p
How to Explore Feminization in 10 Steps
The art of being femme is a favorite topic of mine. I’m going to guide you in how to start and how to deepen your exploration of femme. *Note: this is open to people of every gender identity*

Talk to you soon! And remember, the episodes will stay up at this link if you can’t make the live broadcast.

In Sweet Divine Kink,

New City, New Name

In front of Chicago’s “Cloud Gate” aka the Bean.

It was time for a change. A couple, in fact. I’m moving into a new phase in my work and with that, I’ve decided to relocate and grant myself a new name. Let me update you on a couple of important things:

Firstly, I will forever be fond of the San Francisco Bay Area and plan to travel back as often as possible, however I have decided to make Chicago my new home. It’s a beautiful and vibrant city and I’m excited to explore all that it has to offer. I’ve already begun connecting with people in the kink community here and have found an amazingly sexy dungeon in which to hold my training sessions (in both Logan Square and the West Loop). Being amongst new (to me) surroundings has already proven so beneficial for my creative process, which is inspiring me to complete the editing of my first fetish video (more on that soon!). So, as of October, I am now primarily in Chicago. For my Bay Area friends, fear not, I will update you of my travels via my email announcements.

And next, I have decided to grant myself a new name. My former name, Lexi Lipstick, is a name that brings back many lovely memories for me, but was no longer feeling quite as congruent as I’d like it to feel. I’m a fan of changing that which no longer fits – whether it be a name, a location, a hair color, a life path or whatever it is that one wishes to change. It’s not a light undertaking, of course, and it’s one that I gave much thought to, but I feel lovely in my new name. So, going forward, I will be known as Zahvia. Let me be clear, however, that my deep fondness for lipstick has not changed 😉

That’s two grand changes in one season! I’m excited to explore my upcoming adventures with you. Shaking things up and trying new things light me up from the inside out. I know that in my process, in my commitment to keeping my inner spark burning brightly, I will pass that on to all of the friends I meet along the way. For magic is contagious.




Beauty for Crossdressers

This week I launched a new offering and blog that I’m excited to announce: Beauty for Crossdressers. I’m offering one-on-one feminine guidance and support through personal shopping trips, makeovers, ladies tea and lunch as well as good ol’ fashioned girl talk. The blog includes beauty tips, tricks and guidance specifically for crossdressers. Many of my submissives and fetishists enjoy feminization as well as the CD lifestyle, so this blog has been a long time coming.

Stay tuned for a video series to go along with the blog as well. This is a topic near and dear and I look forward to meeting more of you who are ready for authentic transformation!